Self-Love and How to get into the spirit!!

            

Here's this whole blog centered upon an all-important topic of self-love and self-appreciation... Without further ado, lets swoop right in!

First off,

Ya Ahlan Wa Sahlan! (Hello and Welcome!)

While scrolling across "The Sweetest Way" website, I came across this little paragraph, or whatever you wanna call it. It kind-of hit me hard and I thought it was worth sharing with everyone reading :)

so, here it is:

In all of my forms–daughter, sister, friend, writer, traveller, lover. I am good enough. I am talented enough. I am confident.  I am kind. I seek knowledge.  I show compassion. I fail. I get back up. I am perfectly imperfect. I know who I am and what I stand for. I know what I need to change. I don’t know it all.  I can never know it all. I admit when I don’t know. I know how to forgive. I forgive myself.

I am enough.

There are always Halal or acceptable ways to love yourself.... There was a time where I'll copy someone I liked, scrolling through my Instagram feed or some Snapchat stories and watching people pulling fancy night-outs with perfect outfits, perfect poses, perfect clicks... I would just go for the same. Being a pure candor to everyone reading this.. I know its a bitter-pill to swallow but trust me, you can't start loving yourself until you finally "Be Yourself!!"

You will recognise your own path when you come upon it because you will suddenly have all the energy and imagination you will ever need - Sarah Teasdale

And.. This quote sums it all up! a simple point would be do go for what you wanna see yourself as, and specially for a girl, The society is quite judgemental, being a girl myself I can very clearly understand how it feels to be judged.. But you don't need to be perfect, you just need to be yourself!

STANDARDS HIGH, AND EXPECTATIONS LOW..

Treat yourself like a princess!! just like one in Disney movies or maybe a different one, with a unique story of being unique in your own way! 💙

Remember to never be limited by other people's limited thinking! You are You! and you may not be able to rush to salons to groom yourself every week, or able to buy yourself those pair of shoes you saw at the mall last week.. 

And it takes you months to save up for those new-in tops at Forever-21, Whatever it is don't forget to treat yourself with all your possible means and you know the best way to achieve that happiness and self-appreciation is, "by service to others", The point is to never assume yourself as worthless or Good for nothing. 

Because the person who understands you best, is your own self, So next time don't forget to have that beautiful smile of yours whenever you come across your reflection in the pool, or in the mirror or maybe at a store's door, hehe :))

Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world. - Harriet Tubman

So .. this was my today's blog and now its time for you to get commenting.. so keep those comments coming! <3

That's all for this blog,

Until then,

Believe in Yourself!

Assalam-o-Alaekumm!

God bless everyone who chose to read my blog. It means the world! shukran jazilan :) (lot's of thanks)

Extras:

*Here's some recommended books to help you get into the spirit of being Yourself as a Confident Girl :

★DORK DIARIES- RACHEL RENEE RUSSEL

★A GIRL'S GUIDE TO GROWING UP

★CHOCOLATE FOR A TEEN'S SOUL: Life-Changing Stories for Young Women About Growing Wise and Growing Strong

Hope these help even more :)

enjoy all your presents.

Love,

Your Muslimah Sister

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